Have You Ever Wondered What The Secrets Are For A Great Relationship?
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Everyone always says "The secret to a great relationship is communication". This is a very easy thing to say but what is communication?!
If you're honest then you'll agree that arguing is still a form of communication and so is silence. Even though silence is not a form of verbal communication it can be a very strong form of non-verbal communication.
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The question to ask is: How do you communicate in a way that builds my relationship instead of tearing it apart?
The thing that people don't tell you about communication is that words have different meanings for different people. For an example I'll use an obvious one like Love:
Person #1 - Love to me means that you must buy me things from time to time and do things for me because you want to, not because i ask.
Person #2 - Love for me means that you'll encourage me and believe in me. You'll also hold my hand and cuddle with me.
Now you can imagine that if people didn't know that the word "love" creates a COMPLETELY different internal experience inside their partners mind than it does in their mind then it can be a HUGE source of conflict. Each partner would love the other person with their own meaning for love but their partner may still feel unloved.
Then what often happens is one person says "I feel like you don't love me" and as you could imagine this starts a whole new argument.
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Are you with the right person?
This is a great question and one that should be asked before you find a partner in the form of "How do I find the right person?". But if you're together already then its a very good idea to start finding out your values and beliefs about life & relationships.
Why should you start here? Well because its easy to fall in love with someone when they are new, exciting and attractive. But a lasting relationship is made from all the things on the inside, not the things on the outside.
What are values and beliefs?
Values are what's important to you in life, like love, security, adventure & so on. If you imagine that you are like a country, your values are like the cities within the country and your beliefs are like the roads that lead into the cities and run throughout them.
Beliefs are basically a complex "If = then" formula. "If this (belief or criteria is met) then it means you love me (love is the value in this case). Having aligning values and beliefs is important to the long term success of your relationship.
Do you have to stop being yourself to have aligning values and beliefs?
Defiantly not. Having aligning values and beliefs are achieved by purposefully mesh them together with your partners values and beliefs in the same way that 2 cogs in a machine mesh together in complete synchronicity and harmony.
NLP techniques are easy to learn and use in your relationship and it is the key to take you from an average, mundane & challenging relationship into the relationship of your dreams!
NLP is also an extremely effective way to remove any barriers from past relationships, mistrust for the opposite sex, past abuse & other negative circumstances which can be a large part of relationship challenges and breakdown.
And what are the specific things you'll be covering?
- Core Values
- Core Beliefs
- Past Mindsets
- Communication Tools
- Collapse Negative Associations
- Love Amplification
- Expectations Of Each other
- Relationship Goals
- Action Plan
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Talk soon,
Jason Lagden.
